International Coach Academy - China
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A Coaching Model Created by Grace Pan
(Leadership Coach, CHINA)
在写coaching model之前，我一路寻找那是什么？作为一个善于做抽象概念设计的咨询顾问，做一个模型不难。但是要是一个与内心有共鸣的，是从我的心意中自然流淌出来的模型，就像功夫大师自创的招式那样浑然天成，似乎很难。我的教练模型探索是一个向内看的过程，一个尽可能借用ICA的学友资源去反思和领悟的过程，近两个多月的时间里，我和很多学友聊，参加了课堂讨论，甚至专门请了数位同侪教练陪伴了近10个小时。终于感悟像四面八分地细流一点点汇集，脉络渐渐浮现，在某个晚上突然脑中激荡灵感，满满将要流淌出来，于是十指翻飞，奋笔疾书，每个毛孔都很兴奋地宣布，我的教练模型就是它了。
Coaching Case Study By Grace Pan
(Leadership Coach, CHINA)
In this case, the key was to have my coachee understand what really motivated her and reflect on more possibilities. Specifically, she realized that her not-wanting-to-give-up comes from her desire to conquer a tough client. She even admitted that she put her desire above her client in this case. I noticed that L’s voice was elevated with energy and a sense of joyfulness when she declared what she came to be aware of.
A Power Tool Created by Grace Pan
(Leadership Coach, CHINA)
生活中、工作中总有机会遇见那些和“我”这个人不一样的人和事。有时，我们不认可那样的不同，我们感到很不舒服，仿佛是脚底踩到的沙粒，硌着难受。有人说，活得越认真的人，往往会约会感受到那样的“沙粒”。成年的子女和父母，彼此的习惯和认知都出现了分化，天然的模糊边界，要让我们习惯性地希望求同。“洗碗的规矩是这样的……房子一定要怎么样……孩子不能冻啊……”慢慢地，这样的“求同”小沙粒越积越多，我们觉得越来越难受。
