Second, positive personality traits
In positive psychology, positive personality traits (positive personality) have attracted increasing interest of researchers. Hillson and Marie will be on the basis of a questionnaire study of positive and negative personality traits and personality traits make a distinction that the presence of two separate dimensions of positive personality characteristics: (1) positive characteristics of self-interest (PI: positive individualism) : refers to the acceptance of self, can feel a personal sense of life goals or life, or is able to grasp the feel successful environmental challenges and the environment; (2) positive relationships with others (PR: positive relationswith others): refers to when when they need to get support from others, when others need willing and able to help, valued relationships with others and to have reached relationships with others expressed satisfaction. <Note (4)>
Third, the role of positive psychology coaching itself
A psychology research shows that people with positive emotions better than most people suffer. People prefer to have a positive psychological make friends with others, not alone. They are willing to reach out to strangers and have altruistic spirit, more concerned about the people around, but rarely consider their own interests. And it is precisely these qualities as a coach as it should have. Meanwhile, the coach is a mirror, is able to achieve a positive and optimistic attitude is a direct impact on one aspect of customer sentiment. Thus, “to others interested in learning value and optimistic attitude can be seen as a basic quality coach.” <Note (5)>
- Positive aspects of self-interest
Most people choose the coach’s mind is also concerned with personal growth, hope to have a happy, happy life, which requires the positive characteristics of self-interest, that is how to accept themselves and have a personal life goals, feel successful, and the meaning of life. How a person inside look at themselves in the eyes of the outside world can feel how. A calm person, felt mostly peaceful vision; an inferiority complex who feel discriminated against mostly vision; a kind person, felt mostly friendly vision; a rebellious people, feel mostly critical eye. Therefore, as a coach must first change our hearts, in order to have a peaceful, people trust the state. To do this, we must first learn to love yourself unconditionally accept yourself.
1 face their own shortcomings
No matter how many think the shortcomings and deficiencies, how much do stupid things, bad or stupid, from now on, have to stop blaming their critical and must learn to defend themselves and safeguard the dignity and value of life. If a person is able to face and accept their weaknesses, it means that he not only correctly recognize their own limitations, but also to stop their discontent