Research Paper By Qi Chen
(Life Coach, CHINA China)
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Self-state mode (PAC Model) is an important foundation of communication theory (Transactional Analysis, TA)’s. The school was founded in 1958 by the Eric Berne, is a method of psychological treatment of personality theory and systems. It ego state model to describe the three parts of the personality, to help us understand how different personality influence our thinking, feeling and behavior.
Communication analysis in psychological counseling and therapy has occupied an important place in recent years, attempts have been studied and their applications in business and education. I have been fortunate to learn communication analysis, I am truly benefit; think its promising in coaching, and so in this comment, from ego state model in the “see themselves” in the application of talking, ready to trigger interest and explore more fellow, so Its building blocks for our coaching practice.
Introduction
Customers help coach, and more is to get professional help, which allow them to see themselves and their situation, find a way out, the achievements of hope to change. In this process, “see” is particularly important. Once clearly see, most people will be able to more easily find a way. In the “see”, the see themselves more critical, because only understand himself straightened out, we can think clearly be to observe and analyze the situation we find ourselves.
See yourself is not easy. Benjamin Franklin once said: “There are three things extremely hard, steel, diamonds and know yourself.”, We believe that everyone has their own experience. Imagine an onion, peel the layers to get out of yourself and see yourself wrapped in the cloak of heart, all the difficulties and possibly tingling, not to mention advanced complex human too!
As a coach, with love and acceptance for customers to create a safe space, and the patience to listen and companionship, this is not enough. We must have some powerful tools to help customers see themselves out of sight, to reach their own situation, this is a manifestation of a professional coach and value. Self-state model is a powerful tool. This paper briefly describes the ego state model and analysis through a case and demonstrated its role in helping customers “see themselves” in the